Belonging is one of the primary human needs. But what does it actually mean and how can we cultivate it in a healthy way from within?

Belonging carries 2 verbs. To be and to long.
Two very opposing feelings.
Being means we are in the here and now. It is connected to stillness, rest.
Longing means we are either in the past or in the future, desiring for the “Now” to be different. It is connected to movement, action.

Both belong and both feelings lie at the core of what it’s like to have a human experience.

The question is can we learn to be with longing, not from a place of lack but from a place of wholeness.
The key is not to desire from a place of not having but from a place of simple curiosity, joy and love.

What if I’d told you that all the things that happened to you, that conditioned you, that gave you certain perspectives on life are all just parts of you. But they are not who you are.

You are not your name. You have a name.
You are not xx years old. You have lived certain amounts of years in this body.
And when you are sad you also are not this feeling. You are merely experiencing this feeling.

What you are is beyond all the labels, the definitons, the categories.

Take a deep breath and let that all sink in.

Because what you are is beyond all of what I just mentioned.
You are source expressed in unqiue form.

This means you are not tied to your circumstances, you are not the victim of anyone’s doings.
You are the holder of invisible forces. You can bend reality before it even manifested.

Learn to direct your awareness and see how reality will shift.
The sacred is not outside of you. It is you.